Dawn has been a part of our Home Instead family for almost ten years. In that time she has worked with well over three dozen clients. There is not one client she has worked with who did not realize what a gem she was right from the start. A current client of ours, Leona, is battling cancer and lives alone. Although she has family who visit, she does not want to burden them with her needs as she has always been very independent – and a little stubborn, according to family. Although she enjoys company, she was not very open to the idea of having CAREGivers. It was clear at the CAREGiver introduction that she would be ok with Dawn. Dawn thoughtfully asked about her expectations and preferences and assured her she would respect any limitations set. Being one of the most detail-oriented people we know, Dawn communicated a list of daily tasks to the office after her first shift based on her discussion with the client. While showering, medication reminders, and cleaning were initially what these shifts were all about it has quickly evolved into so much more. They enjoy conversations about everything from Leona’s amazing artwork, to religion, family, and so much more. A three-hour game of scrabble is not unheard of although the office is never privy to who wins! Dawn has helped Leona organize her self-proclaimed “clutter” and is always ready to take on a new project, although at times Leona prefers to just enjoy her company or watch a television show with her. Since Dawn works with her three mornings and five evenings a week, there is always time to fit this all in. Dawn’s consistency, professionalism and kind heart are all part of what Leona treasures, just as we in the office do. When told, secretly, of course, that Dawn was being nominated as CAREGiver of the Year, Leona had this to say: “I am so glad you are nominating Dawn. In this day and age, it is rare to find someone like Dawn who takes her work seriously, never overlooks details and still makes time to make you feel special. She’s everything!” By the way, Leona confided that the Scrabble matches are at a tie!
Dawn’s previously mentioned attention to detail has been a valuable resource to our office. During COVID-19, with part of our staff working remotely, Dawn was a huge help. She not only accepted any new clients she could fit in her schedule, she also willingly took on the first shift with multiple clients in order to compile a complete set of shift instructions to share with all assigned CAREGivers. An example of instructions sent after one such visit included everything on how the client likes her food cooked, safety observations Dawn made during first visit, in-depth details of all tasks such as “set washer to bulky setting for towels,” “basement light switch is on the first floor hall next to kitchen light switch, be careful on stairs,” and so on. This client was so impressed with Dawn’s thoroughness and was comforted that every CAREGiver would be given this information. Although Dawn took this on as a one-time shift to help out the office, hearing how happy this client was and that she hoped to have Dawn back again, Dawn quickly agreed to keep a couple of shifts on a regular basis. It is not surprising how many times we have received inquiries from neighbors of clients asking if Dawn is available to work with them also.
Although Dawn always exemplifies what we want in a Home Instead CAREGiver, it is her work with end of life clients that stands out the most. She has worked with many clients who were also receiving care from Hospice. On each of these shifts Dawn has continuously demonstrated her strong leadership skills by reporting changes to the office, communicating regularly with the hospice nurse and family members and ensuring medication documentation was filled out completely and accurately. More importantly she has connected with each of these clients in such a way that they knew that even if family wasn’t near, they had someone with them who truly cared and would be with them until the end of their journey. One such client, Aimee, started services with Home Instead in 2012 and was fortunate to have Dawn on her team almost from the get-go. Initially, Dawn would take Aimee grocery shopping and to appointments and help around her home, but by 2015 as Aimee’s health conditions worsened, her physical needs in the home became a priority and she was placed on Hospice. As Aimee’s needs increased, Dawn expanded her skills so as to be able to continue to provide Aimee with the care she needed. She grew and learned as Aimee needed her to, and with the anxiety that Aimee experienced, she found Dawn’s presence to be calming and reassuring. Dawn went out of her way to introduce any new CAREGivers to Aimee, and took on more shifts as Aimee’s condition worsened. Through Aimee’s last days, she held Dawn’s hand so tight that Dawn was unable to get up and answer the door when the bell rang. Knowing that Aimee had come to love her, Dawn was insistent on being there with her at the end. She left her phone number for the other CAREGivers, asking them to call if Aimee took a turn for the worse during their shift. She received such a call and rushed to Aimee’s to be with her, at her side holding her hand, as she passed. We know it is Dawn whom Aimee would have wanted by her side at that time.
As if all the above does not demonstrate how truly amazing Dawn is, there is more! We recently accepted a client who lived in an assisted living facility and upon being discharged to home from rehab, needed care 24/7. The facility she was in required that all CAREGivers coming into the facility had a negative COVID-19 test within the past two weeks. As she was a 24/7 client, we had multiple CAREGivers tested and assigned to shifts. Unfortunately, many of the CAREGivers assigned requested to be taken off the shifts once the client’s anger and hostility, possibly brought on by her dementia, became clear. She pinched, spit at, and called CAREGivers nasty names. As CAREGivers came off shifts it was not easy replacing them due to the COVID-19 testing requirements. Dawn stepped up to the plate once again by taking shifts when available and going in the early morning hours to fill gaps between shifts prior to heading to her regularly scheduled shifts. Not once, when hearing our plea for help, did Dawn complain or turn us down. It would not have been possible to keep these shifts up and running without Dawn.
If it were possible to clone a CAREGiver, we would have an abundance of Dawns, enough to go around to everyone in need of an angel.