Preparing for the Future
Question: My father has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimer disease. My siblings and I have become increasingly concerned with the changes in him, and now with this diagnosis are wondering what we can do to prepare for what the future may bring.
Answer: Today, half a million Canadians have Alzheimer's disease or a related dementia. It causes a steady decline in memory resulting in a loss of intellectual functions severe enough to interfere with everyday life. Communication becomes difficult as the person with Alzheimer’s struggles to find words, finish thoughts, and follow directions. The person may become agitated and disruptive as they try to cope with their illness.
You can never be totally prepared for the future, but there are community resources available that can make a huge difference for you and your siblings. The Alzheimer Society is one good source of information and support. Here is an example of suggestions they offer for families:
- Use the available resources to learn as much a you can, and share this information with all those close to the person.
- Focus on the abilities that remain. Don’t lose sight of the person inside and their need for companionship and belonging.
- Work with your doctor and with your local Alzheimer Society to explore treatment options.
- Plan early to find ways to maintain your own physical and emotional well-being. Support yourself through diet, exercise, and time for yourself. Recognize that care giving can take its toll.
- Develop a support network that may include your siblings, friends, or support group members. Try to stay connected to the people around you. Also, locate services in the community that may offer some respite for you and your siblings.
These are all great suggestions. Alzheimer’s unfortunately is an increasingly common disease, affecting one in eleven Canadians over the age of 85. It can be quite a challenge for family members, certainly in terms of emotional turmoil, but also with the demands on one’s time. Taking the initiative to educate oneself is an important first step in preparing a care plan that works for you and your family.
This information is provided for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a recommendation for a specific course of action.
